Life Is Finite

Life is finite no matter how comfy or secure or destitute or endangered. Me-the-misanthrope could use some damned private time (down days give me some distance, and time away from the old comrades-in-arms gives sanity), a little seclusion for oh so many reasons, but its becoming more important to be around those I love and miss.
- Sgt. Thomas J. Strickland, July 9, 2005

Sgt Thomas J. Strickland was from Douglasville, a town about 30 minutes south-and-west of our house. My extended in-laws live there. And if you live in Alanta, chances are good that you’ve been there. A half-an-hour means different things in other cities. In Atlanta, anything under an hour is still local.

Sgt Strickland died on August 15, 2005, in Al Mahmudiyah, Iraq.

When his name appeared in the news, several people mentioned it to me. For some reason, I just hadn’t heard. Every morning, there are so many numbers and not enough name. Some co-workers said they were momentarily shocked, but then reason and common sense reminded them that the Thomas Strickland they know isn’t on active duty with the National Guard.

I’ve been meaning to post something about this soldier that shared my name, but nothing seemed appropriate. I didn’t know him. I can only guess from the photo on television that he was a decent fellow. Nice smile.

It turns out that Sgt Strickland left behind a LiveJournal. If words are anything to go by — and in my opinion, there is often little else — Thomas was more than just decent. He had an orange cat named Punchy. He liked Dean Martin and Wilco. He was either a libertarian or a democrat or some combination of both. And he was a better-than-pretty-good writer.

My thoughts on this are unfinished … but I had to put them somewhere.

  • Amanda

    Ummm…I know you’ve lived here all your life and all, but Douglasville is not at the northernmost tip of GA 400. Loved the entry though. I thought of you that morning as well because they called him Thomas.

  • Kathryn

    I so rarely agreed with anything Reagan said or did, but I ran across this quote from him earlier, “People do not make wars, governments do – and no mother would ever willingly sacrifice her sons for territorial gain, for economic advantage, for ideology. A people free to choose will always choose peace.”
    -Ronald Reagan, Moscow, May 31,1988

    Thanks for introducing us to one of the many people who were given no choice. Let’s hope that peace will soon come and remember all of those who suffer and serve in our prayers.

  • Thomas

    Amanda … when the four lanes reduce to three, then the three lanes squeeze to two, then there is suddenly a series of traffic lights … we’re no longer on GA 400 — at least in my mind.

  • http://dmorgen.blogspot.com Scrivener

    Wow. That Livejournal is certainly tough to read, coming from this link and knowing where it’s headed. Good post.

  • Arlia

    Thomas,
    Thank you for sharing about Sgt. strickland and the link to his LJ. It is painful to read his beautiful writing and know we have lost another soul to this war. One of my best friends has just been deployed. It’s personal now.

  • http://amber.tangerinecs.com Amber

    Wow. Reading that Livejournal is kind of eerie. But, I do like that we now have any even greater opportunity to leave something behind, with blogging becoming (for better or worse) ever more prevalent.

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